Are You Cool?

Everyone must have their own distinctive way on how they define the term "cool" in themselves, right? On the first place, this isn't the one that has something to do with degree Celsius okay. Naive :D

I found it is sometimes conspicuous on how myself deal with cool people. I'll be by any chance try to get acquainted with them. If you found me sometimes be nice to you in a very awkward time, like you don't know me but suddenly bumped into me and I slightly treated you so freaking nice as you have been knowing me for years, you must be one of them too! Huhu!

These kind of persons are seems to be so cool to me! Are you in? :D

1. People who read/ followed my blog but didn't leave any trace, like in the Chatbox or commented on the posts.     
For some strange reasons I don't know why I think they're so cool. I'll be contemplating to search these peoples and try to befriend with them then. Sounds odd, right? But I do think they're cool, you know, they did visit my blog and read it, but they left no links nor comments for me to visit them too, its like, they didn't really mind whether their visits are replied by another visit by me, or even known or not. They're like, so cool! Hehe. Look how weird I am. BUMMER. 

2. People who contributed a worthy idea in a very short comment. 

These people, to me, know exactly how to express a good idea without miles of explanation. They got a very bright idea, and just by leaving a short comment, left me ponder to think how true it was. That was a very cool comment, by a very cool people :)

3. People who wrote a very brilliant quote in his/her status update on Facebook. It could be amusing too.

I love to read quotes, most specially like a brainy quote that reading it is worthwhile, and funny jokes that could make me laugh, thinking how silly it was. The best status update I've read ever on Facebook is:

"Everyone can quit smoking, but it takes a real man to face cancer."

Haha. Amusing, and it made me think too. Well, this must be quoted from a very wise, heavy smoker. What a perfect reason to count on for not quitting smoking cigarettes. Damn it was so cool. 

And you know who wrote this as his status update? Me! Hahaha. Damn I was very cool! Hehe. But I ain't a smoker kayh! :)

4. Everyone who preferred to be single.

Yup, being single is cool! Its not like he's/she's such a loner, just they preferred it is way better to stay single. And they did everything on their own, a very independent and need not to cling to anyone to settle their own business. Its like, they can survive on their own. These guys are some kind of cool to me too :D

So literally everyone who has couple is never in my 'cool buddy' list at all. Hehe.

5. Every blog that delivers bright ideas.

I don't care who are the author, where he came from, in what language he wrote his posts or whatsoever that might sound like "judging a book from its cover", as long as his ideas aren't too preposterous to retrieve and he's not writing craps and junks, he's always on the list. Anyway, even if I want it too, I can't. He's obviously not a book for me to judge his cover. Burned. Okay, thats a crap.

6. Authors for English blogs in which he/she really have a remarkable flair in English.

Great, isn't it? I really love to read English articles, essays and poems written by amateurs in blogs. Its just very much genuine ideas and real creative. Here's a cool blog I really admires for its awesome literary, poetic posts. Plus the author really got tonnes of vocabs! Superb! 

acoysmoke.blogspot.com

7. People who prefer to remain silent unless it is necessary for him to speak. 

He's cool coz his action speaks louder than words. Even in a situation in which people accused him, or he's being blamed for something he didn't commit, he stay cool and rather not to speak confrontational words to back himself up. He kept his temper smothered from everyone despite of the pressure he faced. But when he speak, that'll be a roar of a lion, and everyone shall listen to him. He got a respect for his voice. Amazing isn't it? Well, it sounds just like my father. :)


8. Unsung heroes.
Hell yes, this are real cool guys! Patriots, most particularly nationalism fighters who stands for the country when everyone yield away, sacrificed himself fighting alone till he fall down. I don't know who are they, but  believe there must be some national fighters who we didn't actually even realized they existed. And their deaths are unknown too, proving that they're not fighting, sacrificing, and dying for names and fame.. Yea, patriots were cool :)

9. Me.
Hahahahahahahahaha.. I'm cool, aren't I? The only time I don't feel cool was when I got hit by dengue fever. My body temperature was reaching 40 degree celcius, and that weren't cool at all! Hahaha. Okay, crap again! =.="


(and now it is suddenly about degree celcius! Ok, my bad. =.=")


Well I guess thats all. Amongst all those cool people I stated above, can you spot what they all have in common? Well?


What they got in common is, all of them got nothing in common! Hahaha! Got yaa.


Okay, knock it off. I think I'm starting to talk craps now. Huhu. 




Cheerio!

A Break Up Story

June 6th, 2011. 10:11 a.m. 

Time flies. It has been almost a month after we broke up, but it's still circles in my mind on how I still feels the blame was on me, coz I merely has failed to explain to you why I turned around. I don't know what else to do. You deleted my messages on phone before reading it, you turned off the Chatbox whenever you saw me online, you never replied me; you did everything to keep yourself away from my words, even I merely just want to explain why I decided to end our melodramatic relationship, that instant. Why I betrayed your feelings, why I ignored your concerns about me, and why I don't think being together in the name of love is really works on both of us. You didn't, no, you still don't want to listen to me. 


Dear name, why must we hold grudge to each other over a ruined relationship? The thing is, you hates me. You hates me to the bottom of your heart. You mentioned me in every each of your status updates on how freaking evil I was to you, with hell of harsh words. Some kind of euphemism I guess. But I admit it, I was evil to you. I didn't appreciate your feelings on me when I decided to break up. You sacrificed a lot for me over those 6 months we've been together, but this is how I gave you in return; a break-up. I was evil. I was a bad guy, probably the worst guy you ever known in your entire life. 


But sincerely, frankly, and honestly, you have to know that the reason why I left you was just for the best sake of both of us. I don't mind anymore if you wanna say that I was being hypocritical over this, or I was just pretending to be a good man or whatsoever, as long as I know that I'm doing the right thing, I don't scare of anything. You didn't scare me with your ominous words of doing a revenge as a retaliation to me, you didn't scare me with your harsh words, you didn't scare me by getting your friends against me, or anything; I know I'm doing the right thing.


Dear name, I didn't want to overwhelm ourselves in sins over the false relationship we've pledge allegiance together all this while. You know what, I came to realize how vulnerable I was when we're together, and suddenly I felt shame for myself. I was from a well-known, respected high school for its Islamic background, in which templates everything must be made by putting religious matter first before others no matter what, and after I went out of the school, this is what I came to be? Getting myself involved my a relationship in the so-called name of love? 


I've betrayed all the Islamic values that I got from my previous school before. I got a very tight Islamic background, but I couldn't resist this. It really made me think, dear. This is why I turned around and decided to break up with this false relationship. The relationship in the so-called "name of love". I don't wanna say "couple", coz it made me felt so bad. Frankly.


Dear name, do you still remember the day when we spoke to each other about this. Its still clear in my mind on how we've agreed not to couple no matter how close we'll gonna be. No matter what, we'll stay together but not as a couple. But dear, out of blue, look what've came to us at last? We blatantly have violated our own words. We were recklessly kept drowning in the sweet memories of being together. Of being loved. And slightly forgot where the relationship shouldn't extends to. We've crossed the line we ourselves garrisoned. Sorry but I've to say, WTF on earth has happened to me?


We were blindfolded in the mirth, thats for sure. We kept swaying ourselves in the sweet relationship, without alarming how we've gone so far away. 


Well thats the F.


Thats why, my dear, I suddenly decided that this should not proceed any further. We've been so vulnerable, and I couldn't afford to risk it anymore, thats why I quit. 


Its up to you to believe me or not. You might still say that I'm pretending to be good again, its really up to you. Up to you if you couldn't accept a change in me to better, I don't care. 


If a man wanna change in his life and then criticized, mocked and accused to be pretending, you can obviously know who's right and who's wrong. You can say anything, and I will not react over those confrontational words ever again. I won't get offended again over those cranky disposition you shown me. 


Just one thing, I really wish that you will stop hating me one day. What the point of having vengeance, it won't solve anything instead of making it worse. We only live once, don't waste it with hates and grudges. 


Sincere.


June 6th, 2011. 12:15 p.m. 




(Its just a story, not necessarily about me) =)

Top 3 Most Popular Carreer In Malaysia

These are the top 3 most popular carreer prospects and sectors in Malaysia.



1. Doctors

We have 30 medical schools and institutes in Malaysia.

In 2010 we have 3650 medical graduates, and to 2020 it is anticipated that we'll be producing 3000 - 4000 medical graduates every year.

Current ratio for doctors per patients = 1 doctor is to 903 patients (1:903).

Conclusion : We need more doctors.


2. Engineers

We have 9 engineering schools and universities in Malaysia.

Extends to wide sectors and field of engineering, such as network engineering, automobile engineering, civil engineering, technical engineering, aeronautical engineering, electrical engineering and so forth.

We have 60,000 registered engineers throughout Malaysia, with only 14,000 to 15,000 of them are profesionals.

We are expected to have 40,000 more engineers.

Conclusion : We need more engineers.


3. Artists

We have International College of Music (ICOM), Faculty Of Music in Universiti Teknologi MARA (UiTM), Akademi Seni Budaya & Warisan Kebangsaan (ASWARA), and thousands more of other private schools, such as YAMAHA Music School, Bentley Music Academy, Pianissimo School of Music etc.

Plus, we have more TV programmes and shows that are aimed to recruit and produce more artists by year. I heard lots more are coming.

All over Malaysia, we have UNCOUNTABLE numbers of artists, extending from independents to profesionals. Close to infinity.

Conclusion : Enough is enough!



Oh for God sake we already got much artists in here. Will you stop?




BUMMER.

A Reminder To All Facebook Enthusiasts

I know maybe most of you have seen this video, but I'm still posting it anyway, as a reminder to all of us, especially to those who haven't seen this. 


Credits to Suhaiza Kasim for the link. 

God we're so vulnerable.. 


Girls please be sure to take a considered precautionary measure to stifle it from happening to us.


The best way is, keep all your profile pictures private, so you're not by any chance missed something. Things like that might be subtle to you to perceive if there's any of you in those pictures are not properly dressed.


You can't afford to hesitate.

Why The Heck Is Everyone Is Dying To Be On The Tube?

Tell me whats wrong with the society,
When everywhere I look I see,
Young girls are dying to be on TV,
They won't stop till they've reached their dreams,
Diet pills, surgery,
Photoshop pictures in magazines,
Telling them how they should be,
It doesn't make sense to me..


One Question : Why the heck is everyone today seems to want to be famous so bad? 


You can see this trend is actually becoming a phenomenon today. Youtube today, for example, is full of crappy videos, done by these kind of people, looking for fame. And the rules are if you got the highest compliments from the comments, you WIN, and the other way around will be cursed, mocked and rated with tonnes of "dislikes". 


This is one example of those craps vids. They really thought that they really got talent to show, although they were truly do not. All they have is time and a camera.

Okay okay, that were me and my youngest sister. Lalala~


Well yeah, thats what happened today, so what? What's your problem?


My problem? Okay let me tell you what. Its sad to see how our Muslim girls today have also get affected so badly to this trend. Yeah they dressed appropriately, wore hijab, Islamic looks, no aurah is exhibited. And then they uploaded some of their own videos, just like the crappy video above, strum the guitar, make a cover for a song and sing it. And as comments are tumbling in, they suddenly became famous in a blink of an eye, mostly not coz they sung great or magnificent guitar play or nice rhythm or whatsoever pertaining to talents, but its all was just fueled from the way she looked in that video. Cute face, slight fame. Not-really-cute face, nobody cares. Thats the system, right?


And they thought they've done nothing wrong. Wearing hijab, covering aurah, appropriate attire. That'll be just enough for them perhaps. But they forgot..


HOW THEIR VOICES IS A PART OF AURAH TOO. 


Well hell, I don't think they forgot, or don't even know about it. Its just they don't really care about it. Fame is in the top list! So they thought by wearing baju kurung, hijab would be enough to blindfold people that they are good Muslim girls and portrayed good Islamic looks. 


AND THE OUTCOMES?

Youtube so-called artists. Yeah, real "Islamic". 




SHAME :(

What's Wrong With Coupling?

I have to accept the fact that most of friends today aren't really aware on how destructive "coupling" can be to their faith, as a Muslim. Most of them chose to let themselves drowning in love, blindfolded by those sweet words, romances and the feeling of being loved, without alarming that all of those mirth, happiness and gleeful memories are all FAKE!

And I'm writing this based from my very own pathetic, shameful little experiences. I hate to think how foolish I was. 

Why I said it is fake? Okay now read this and believe me.

1. IT WILL LAST. 

90 percents of every each of my friends who have girlfriends/boyfriends last their melodramatic relationship that they've sworn allegiance to before, with a simple break up. No other couples survived. They'll be just as anticipated, break up in the end. Believe me, its just the matter of time. I saw it all, couples come and go. Things that have been making me laugh all this while were to see how status updates of sweet words as "I love you dear", "How I miss you", "Can never live without you", suddenly went rouge and became, "Go f*ck yourself bitch", "Fool I was freaking retarded loving him", "Sh*t I've wasted 5 years of my lifetime loving a cunt". What a joke.

2. PEOPLE WILL CHANGE.

At first he'll say, "Dearie you're the best thing that I've ever had in my life", well,  indeed it is, you're really the best thing he ever had. But one day when he suddenly bumped into another girl that adores him more than you, that girl will then be "the bestest". And slowly he'll be looking out for a reason to get rid of you from the relationship. In short he'll some day say to you, "Now I come to realise that we didn't really fit each other, you didn't understand me", and will start point out absurd reasons that you never even remembered when on earth have you be so to him, as like "you've been too ignorant of my feelings", "you're always mad at me, I can stand it no more", "I saw you walked with him twice, and I'm not buying that crap anymore". Well, that's all bullshit. He just wanna see you walk away, coz it will be a good riddance for him then. 

Don't believe me? GIVE OUT A TRY AND DO THANK ME.

3. ITS ALL JUST ABOUT YOUR GOOD LOOKS. 

Thats all. He or she will never say that three words if you didn't look good in his sight/ her sight. Apparently, your so-called soulmate are proud to call you his/her sweetheart in front of others because you're just looks so good. Wanna give out a test? Have a facelift and he'll be away in three days. Literally. Sarcastically. 

So this is what you call a "true love"? Oh give me a break.

4. YOU'LL BE IN NO WAY TO REALISE HOW SINFUL YOU'RE.

Yes, that is, as long as you are dealing with this couple thing. You won't realise. Lusts, evil whispers blindfolded you. Thats why you feels everything is so good so far and you never this happy before. Its like you're living in your own world, when you're truly not. And slowly, you'll be creeping out of your Islamic looks and practices. You'll start to hold his/her hand, touch him/her, kiss him/her, and when this happens, when both of you starts touching each other in the so-called "name of love", it will then starts to take its toll. You'll have the gut to do thing further worse. 

THIS ARE ALL SINS. But you never gonna realise it all. Inconspicuous.

Brothers and sisters, I'm not against love. I never was. It's the very nature of human to love each other and irresistible. 

"And among His signs is this, that he Created for you mates from among yourselves, that ye may dwell in tranquility with them, and He has put love and mercy between your (hearts): verily in that are signs for those who reflect."

Ar Rum, aya 21.

All I'm asking was, please have it in a proper way. Appropriately Islamic. 

Coupling isn't a way in Islam. Why don't you just give it up and accept it.

Out Of My Wall, Spammer!

Facebook isn't so much secured these days. Spams are everywhere. They get posted on your wall, just waiting for you to make the mistake. Click!

Thats one of them. Never ever click on those trashes, or you'll be infected as well. That's how these thing spread so far. Extremely vulnerable and contagious. Its like a plague. And once you get affected, it'll be posting spams to your friends' walls and I don't know how long it will stop. 


How to recognize a spam?


Easy. This sign would appear on your notifications lists.

If that is the icon, thats another stupid spammer.




Don't get fooled yaww :D